Make Her Chase You: The Guide To Attracting Girls Who Are "Out Of Your League" Even If You'Re Not Rich Or Handsome Paperback – December 4, 2008

I am a follower of Tynan's Blog. I have much respect for his very straight forward writing style. For those that don't know, he is Herbal from the Neil Strauss's book, The Game. This is where I was first introduced to the whole concept of the pick up community. It took me a couple of years to get around to reading "Make Her Chase You." Mostly, I chose to buy and read it because I really liked the practical advice from his other book, The Life Nomadic. The advice that I found in this book did not disappoint one bit. Tynan's advice focuses on creating a cool, fun lifestyle rather than pretending to be something you are not. While I don't believe his personal lifestyle choices (not drinking, vegan) are for me, I know that the fact he sticks to his guns on it and sticks to his values as a whole makes woman he is with respect him.He gives you an over all over view of how to make yourself a more attractive male, not just faking it. The importance of having the right attitude, storying telling, teasing, and what kind of first dates to take a girl on. The type of dates he suggests are really cool, cheap, unique.He'll go over what you need to say on the phone, choosing your relationships, and other little tips. Its a very good over view on how to get started in attracting women. It did find it a bit short though. Its worth buying and reading, but it's NOT the only book on this subject you need. There are other books out there that give you a deeper and maybe more insightful understanding on how to attract women. We all need to start somewhere and this a great book to learn the basics from.

Tynan does a good job at putting together his knowledge and experiences in this book however like many things you take the good and leave the bad. An example of this is when Tynan states about meeting girls in places other then bars and clubs which is true...........you probably have as much chance hooking up outside of a bar then in one! He describes of a time when shopping in a department store where he got a girls number by smashing into her trolley and then saying to her "Watch where you're going!". If the reader of this book took this technique literally that reader would probably be verbally abused and possibly kicked out of the store. What was the context and circumstances?Tynan has learned from the great pick up artists including Mystery so his knowledge is valuable. His emphasis on making the girl chase you highlights the fact so many guys do the chasing and then end up as pathetic followers of the girl.......which is unattractive. However you need to attract the girl first and then do the chasing. Otherwise you could end up one lonely guy as women never chase at the start!Other tips and tricks such as how to handle phone calls, when to call, what to say and do are invaluable so this book is defintely worth reading. However there are probably others out there that are better. None the less the more knowlege you have, the better you'll be with women of all types and ages. That leaves the door to many possibilities!!!

I have studied this stuff for a while now. I liked the all the books written by Style and and of course Mystery,but there was something in this guy's personality that really brought this message out about howto make this stuff work naturally into the light for me.Here is a small example of how he explains things.( Neediness manifests itself when you get your self esteem or self worth from your girlfriend or boyfriend.If they like you then you feel like a great person and you're proud. If they are slipping away you feel unattractive and worthless. The tangible signs of neediness are things like:. Calling them too much. Asking them about how much they like you. Asking them about the relationship. Insisting on spending all your time with them. Trying to restrict them from hanging out with other friends (male or female) If you EVER catch yourself doing any of these things, STOP and do the opposite.If you call them too much, don't call them until they call you again, even if it takes days. If you start to feel jealous of them hanging out with friends, say something like ,"Hey I have some work to do tonight, why don't you hang out with Todd and Anissa"?This is critically important. If you are a needy person you will get total disrespect from yourgirlfriend/boyfriend.) Thanks Tynan!

I must say I've read a few of these PUA type books and it's always the same old same old. As a man, like most others I am not perfect, I work long and hard(no pun intended), I get stressed and feel down, I feel happy, I feel horny etc etc. I am not a comedian but have a sense of humour. This book basically says you need to never be embarrassed, always be positive, be eccentric, do stupid things like crash your trolley into a woman's in a supermarket to 'hit on her'. If I tried this in London it would be considered childish. All these PUA's are American and they're techniques make me cringe. Make her chase you offers nothing that every other PUA chancing his arm hasn't said. I naively spend a fortune on David d angelo's stuff and I honestly think since then my sex life has become worse overall. Most men have problems talking to women in my opinion, as primates we see an attractive woman and just think of what sex would be like with them of how they look naked. We don't think of how much fun salsa dancing would be with them or going to the theatre etc. This book is yet another mental masturbation book about being the kind of man most of us will never become.

In this book you learn the characteristics which usually make a man attractive/unattractive to girls, it gives you a better insight to understanding girls, what they like in a man.If you have been rejected by girl so often, you may have been doing just the wrong things everytime, if so, then this book may be very useful to you to learn the following:1. What attracts women?- how should you differentiate yourself from others?- what expresses yourself being confident?- Notes about humor, individuality ..etc2. Do looks matter? how? and why?3. The Chase- should you put her on a pedestal (i.e. make her feel extremely important) or not?- should you show concern about her at the beginning? or pretend as you are just willing to leave?4. Stories, the way to express your good characteristics indirectly.5. Teasing, chalenging a girl made fun.6. Dates, how to date? should you pay? ..etc7. The Friend zone. how to take yourself out of it?.8. Phone game. how to ask for a number of get asked for your number? how often to call? the first call..etcSpecial cases, for instance, girls with boyfriends.

This book is very nice for someone who need to learn about women.Don't forget : you don't have to chase them, but to be natural and interesting! Live your life and you'll meet someone who will follow you!

Little short but one of the best and wonderful book. Really enjoyed reading it. It is short but very detailed